How to Build Trust with an Abused Dog

Fulfilling the Dog's Basic Needs

Make sure your dog has identification on it. Give your dog a collar with a name tag and your number on it. Make sure it fits comfortably on your dog's neck. An abused dog may get spooked or escape from you, and you want to make sure that if it does get away from you it can be identified.

Feed the dog. Give it its favorite food at regular times during the day. It is recommended that a dog be fed twice a day. You should also give your dog open access to water at all times. Feeding, walks, play, and grooming should all happen at predictable times each day because having a routine will build a sense of security for your dog.

Give the dog a space of its own. This is usually a crate or a bed that the dog feels comfortable on. There are a wide variety of dog pillows and baskets in pet shops that you can buy for it. The dog's space should serve as a place where it can take a break. If your dog is feeling overwhelmed or fearful, make sure to allow the dog to return to its safe space and leave it alone. You can also give the dog some toys to play with on its own. Most dogs won't like every toy you give them, but instead will choose a favorite and ignore others completely.

Give the dog a name and teach it to respond to it. Always call your dog by its name and try not to change it. Changing names will just confuse the dog. Having a name that your dog will respond to will keep help you to bond with the dog. Use a happy and upbeat tone of voice when you call the dog by name. This will help to build good will between you and the dog.

Buy treats you can use to train the dog. Try lots of different treats until you find its favorite. Give it snacks when it's good, follows a command, or does a trick.

Showing the Dog Love

Pet the dog delicately. Many dog who have been abused are hand shy, meaning that they are fearful when approached by hands. Pet your dog with your palm up under his or her head, not over the head or on the dog's rear end. It isn't an offensive motion if you use the palm up. You want to make sure that the dog sees you coming before you pet it. While you might get closer to a fearful dog by sneaking up on it, you will not build trust that way and you might get bitten due to fear.

Exercise and play with the dog. You need to build up trust with an abused dog, so once again you need to be delicate with your play at first. After about a month, your dog should start to trust you. Play football, catch, races, and anything else your dog enjoys doing. The more walks you give it, the more trust you get.

Give the dog plenty of attention but don't smother it. You need to walk the line between giving the dog attention and giving the dog freedom. Keep a bit of time every day to play with your dog. However, your attention can be stressful to a dog that is distrustful of you. Give it a break from your attention if it becomes too much for the dog.

Socialize the dog cautiously. Your dog needs to build trust with other people and dogs, in addition to you. This can be difficult to achieve if the dog has been severely abused. Begin slowly, by letting the dog see other dogs or people at a distance. Then very gradually let your dog get closer. You will probably want to get a volunteer to be the stranger you introduce your dog to, as you don't want to scare a stranger with a possibly aggressive dog. Once you and your dogs are nearly soul mates you might want to take getting another dog into consideration. If you cannot handle it, simply take the dog out for more walks so it can meet other dogs. Dogs that have not been properly socialized, but have not been abused, can appear as if they have been abused. Socialize any dog that has socialization issues, as it can even help dogs that have not been abused.

Training the Dog

Use rewards instead of punishment. You want to reinforce positive behavior instead of punishment because most dogs understand the connection between actions and rewards more clearly than what they are being punished for. Never hit a dog. If you don't like something the dog is doing a simple and calm "no" or Uh-uh will usually suffice.

Use counter conditioning. Counter conditioning will be helpful if your dog has specific fears. It works by conditioning the dog to get closer and closer to things it fears by luring it close with something it loves. For example, if your dog is afraid of bicycles, you place your dogs favorite toy or a treat close to a bicycle. After the dog takes the bait, you gradually (over days or weeks) move the treat or toy closer to the feared item.

Train your dog in basic commands. This may go slowly if you have just adopted an abused dog. Just remember that if you build enough trust between you and the dog, it will eventually want to follow your command. Begin with "sit" and "come" commands. These will set the foundation for further training, such as "heel," "lay," and a wide variety of others.

Be patient. An abused dog has gone through a lot of trauma and deserves some time and patience from you. It's fine to have some behavior expectations but don't be unrealistic. The dog doesn't have any reason to trust you, as they may have had strictly bad relationships with humans. Give your pup some time and show it every day that your are trustworthy.