Couples put in a lot of effort in their relationships and marriage. Once there is a rift in a relationship, it is very difficult to heal it. Cheating or extramarital affairs is said to ruin a couple’s bond, or even lead to divorce. Recently, one shocking news went viral where a woman made a claim that her husband’s extramarital affair with another woman not only helped her to become a better person, but also saved her broken married life. As per experts, to improve the relationship between husband and wife, there are some key rules – like good communication and spending quality time. The recent story, however, the woman says that her husband’s affair improved their relationship.
According to reports, this woman said that she realised that she was actually wrong and that her husband’s betrayal, despite shocking her, made her stronger. This woman has described her situation on scarymommy.com. The special thing is that the woman also says that she does not forgive betrayal. But this once came into her life like a hidden blessing. This woman also admitted that, after learning about her husband’s affair, she had decided to divorce her husband and had even approached a lawyer. But when both the husband and wife sat together to talk, they spoke about the beginning of their relationship. After this, both of them worked on themselves. They improved their communication and finally decided that both of them would work together to save the relationship. The woman wrote in her post that the divorce application shook both of them. Today, their whole lives have changed, and both are living a happy life.
Recently, Shazia Saleem (Master’s in Psychology), who specialises in separation and divorce counselling, shared some tips to build a strong and healthy relationship. Let’s take a look at the tips shared by her.
1. Mutual respect
2. Trust: An important component in a great relationship
3. Healthy boundaries
4. A good relationship is defined by personal space.
5. Open communication
6. A sense of security
7. Emotional connection
8. Assertiveness can make a relationship better
9. Proactiveness enhances the relationship
10. Love
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