Often married couples end up pointing fingers at each other after a conflict. Blaming each other for being irresponsible is also not new. However, even the slightest behavioural improvement can prevent a marriage from completely falling apart. Facing a similar dilemma, a woman expressed her pain on social media after she was fed up with her husband’s behaviour.
Taking to Mumsnet, a woman shared that she feels burdened. She explained that she could barely get her husband to complete two tasks. In the last five years, he has not helped her out in any way. The woman admitted that at times the situation seemed to be better, but mostly, he ended up making mistakes and even blamed her saying she works part-time, while he works full-time.
She further expressed her disappointment with her husband and shared that he never did anything 100 per cent. After 10 years of living together, his patience with his kids also wore out. She alleged that her husband shows no interest in doing any work. He also does not even fulfil his responsibility as a father. Sharing an incident, she wrote that since the children are quite young and to reduce her burden, she asked her husband to seek an appointment for them to meet the dentist and to book swimming classes for the children. But, he did not do either of these things.
The woman shared that many times, she sought her husband’s help with many household chores, but he never stepped in to help her. At times, he also forgets to bring goods from the shop because of this, she finds it challenging to make breakfast. After venting out, she also asked the forum if she was expecting too much from her husband.
In the comment section, many women shared that they could relate to her story as they have been facing the same problem. One user wrote, “You cannot change a person. Either you accept them or leave them.” Another felt that the woman has to decide if she wants to stay with her husband or not.
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